Kill the hopeless romantics

My greatest wish is that a handsome man cross an entire city and declare his love to me by saying " You have bewitched me body and soul,and I love you". But a man  will not read pride and prejudice until the girl they like told them is her favorite book. 

A hopeless romantic is a person who continues to believe in love,no matter the struggles they may experience in the past.

They choose to see the positive in relationships over the negative, believing wholeheartedly that love conquers all.

Being a hopeless romantic is not a crime but It can be harmful if you have unrealistic expectations that no one can possibly live up to.

But isn't sweet to stay up all night making fake scenarios with that blonde guy you saw in the store? Wondering how his lips taste like or how much love does his heart Carry on? well bad news is just a  normal blonde guy in a normal store. 

Daydreaming about love in this generation is in fact a waste of time ( in my opinion not yours) people think that a " good morning" text is the best token of love. 

Should we kill the hopeless romantic? Or they will think is a enemies to lovers trope? 

How movies affect our expectations in love 

For generations, people have looked to the big screen for guidance on how to fall in love, stay in love, and everything in between. While some films offer a more realistic portrayal of love, others take a more fantastical approach.

We all have seen characters who fall in love at first sight, who have no problems communicating with each other, and who always seem to be on the same page. In many Hollywood movies, love is depicted as a fairytale romance where everything always works out perfectly in the end 

love is not always easy, there are ups and downs, ghosting phases and so much more problems that I didn't mention 

Boys will not buy you one hundred tulips just because you like tulips

Boys will not vote two hundred times for you to be prom queen they will not kiss you under the Rain. The guy in the bus will not sit next to you and talk about literature and cinematography. The librarian is working to pay med school not to be your next love interest 

Your enemie will not fall in love with you

He will destroy you like this unrealistic expectation about love. Because this is not a pride and prejudice, before sunshine, or the notebook scene is just a normal life.

We could not kill the hopeless romantic because that mean we must kill ourselves.

Romance is pure simplicity and expectation

And daydreaming all day will not give you the perfect relationship. 

Go ahead and face reality, do not stay watching films all day but create them.